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writes: I fancy this girl at school. she is seen as one of the cool people and I am not, so what should i do ? Should i try and get her on her own and ask her or should i just leave it and go for someone else. plz pz plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): That's like saying, "I'm not 'cool' enough to drive a nice car, or live in a nice house, or eat good food, or get higher education, or breath better air..."
You must have very low self-esteem to ask such a question. That's okay. I used to have lower self-esteem in HS too! I snapped out of it when I realized how insignificant high school politics were to me compared to the outside world. [wink]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): I agree with WENDYG, the only way to know where you stand is to jump in the deep end. In school everyone is banded in to groups but its just a label and doesnt make anyone better than the next person so therefor i dont see why she would'nt say yes.Go for it!!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 Well in life you have to take chances. For all you know she likes you too! Go for it, ask her, the very worst that could happen is she will say no. At least then you will know, its often the not knowing or the not doing that can make us question things. Go ask her out and with a bit of luck she will say yes!
Good luck!
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