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male
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36-40,
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writes:ok hi me an my girlfriend are having a big a of problem.. when im doing wat i have to do she says she feels like shes almost going to orgasm but then it just goes away although she gets wet... so wat is the deal is this wat a womens orgasm is or is there more to it or is there something im doing wrong please enlighten me thank u.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 the 'deal' is, your girlfriend is stopping herself from having an orgasm, which is why it fades away, is she stressed, (she may not know she is stressed, has she orgasmd before, it more than likely isnt something you are doing, unless you change your technique just when the orgi fades away or you do something different. I hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, red1982 +, writes (20 November 2007):
Hi there
It doesn't sound like your girlfriend is having an orgasm. If she's not sure if it was or not then it wasn't!!
You should have a heart to heart with your girlfriend. She will be able to tell you if it's something you are doing wrong and if there is something she would like you to do.
It takes time to learn how to please each other. Just experiment and find out what you both like and dislike. And don't focus on having an orgasm, it won't work if she's not relaxed. Sex is not all about an orgasm, just relax and have fun.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): stop worrying, you are doing nothing wrong. i was actually like this at the very start of my relationship with my now fiance and i thought there was something wrong with me. i was just finding it hard to let go because i had never done before with anyone else and I didnt no if I fully trusted him. chances r she is worrying about it just as much as you. let it go for now but maybe bring up in conversation and ask her if everything is ok with her at the moment, because maybe she has something on her mind - maybe pressures with work or fall out with a family member. it could be something as small as this that is stopping her from fully relaxing. if she says nothing is wrong then maybe just come (excuse the pun) out with it and explain to her what you explained to me (on this webpage). Good luck!! :)
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