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She's got a boyfriend but she likes me; what should I do about it?

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Question - (29 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2007)
A male Malaysia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I like Missy and we'r kind of seeing each other. Shes got a boyfriend and she likes me too. We have gone out for dates, held hands, make out short of sleeping with her. Last Thursday she went for a vacation comin back this Sunday didn't tell me who she went with but i can sense its her boy friend. She text me. I didn't reply and she text again asked me why didnt i reply. What shall i do when she comes back?

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A male reader, pantelis0383 United States +, writes (30 June 2007):

If she cheated on him, she isn't worth it.

Tell her that.Tell her that you are a serious man and don't like this kind of things.

Tell her you are a person of trust and respect.

Full stop.

Any other reaction would be wrong.

That is, if you want a relationship.

If she breaks up and runs after you, then think about it.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntShe has the best of both worlds here, a loyal boyfriend and you who seems to be prepared to hang about for her.

When she gets back you should talk to her and tell her while she has been away it has given you time to think and you are no longer prepared to be second best, so until she has decided who she really wants to be with you would prefer no more contact with her.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, tweetytoby11 India +, writes (29 June 2007):

tweetytoby11 agony auntYou need to talk to her and see how much she really cares for you and her boyfriend. It seems that she just wants to keep you on the side for just in case purposes. You need to find out where you stand with her and if she isnt going to leave her boyfriend than you need to leave her alone. You can be friends without the benafits of course. But you need to find your own mate who is and will be all yours...any ?'s just ask..

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