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She won't let go of her cruel boyfriend what can I do?

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Question - (7 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2010)
A male Singapore age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl who is studying in the same school as me for almost 2 and half years. She's in a very rocky relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. She knows the nature of her relationship. Her bf is a very possessive guy. She has feelings for me but she can't break up from her bf because she's afraid she can't move on. Yesterday night, I saw her personal message on her msn, "From that sms of yours, it makes me drop a tear, hurts.. Can't believe what you have said" I believe she's reffering that to her bf. I asked her what's happening, but she's not replying my messages or answering my calls. She has cried many times because of emotional caused by her bf for the past 5 years. I still do care for her, but she's ignoring me. What am I supposed to do now? It hurts to see her going through this.

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A female reader, KEL.B HERE 4 U United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

KEL.B HERE 4 U agony auntit will hurt u when u care so much. but some times the only person who can end the misserble ralationship is her self and in time she will get the courage and leave him when she grows stronger. the only thing for you to do is confront her not on a text but to her face and ask why she is ignoring you. and if you make up then just be there for her every step of the way comfort her when she hurts, understand her and in time she will realise its time to let go of her current boyfreind. but if you do go about telling her to get rid of him she will only push you away. JUST BE HER FREIND!

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A male reader, James_Michael United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

James_Michael agony auntIt might not mean she's ignoring you - She might just not want to converse it right now. Give it a few more days mate.

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