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How do we talk to our friend and tell them to stop doing bad things?

Q.   my friend has a not friend who does really badthings and she doesn't like it. we always tell him he should stop doing these things but he doesn't listen! we always tell her she should talk to him about it but she doesn't knoe how to bring it up or ...

A.   15 August 2010: Sadly, marijuana smoking is common in people your age. It's wrong and illegal. But you cannot stop this man from smoking weed, you can try introducing him to help classes, or ask him if smoking marijuana is really worth a prison sentence? There ... (read in full...)

I'm 14, but my bf is 25, is it legal/wrong? Should I break up with him?

Q.   [OP original title] I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...

A.   8 August 2010: He's a complete pedophile, leave him now while you still have your sanity! ... (read in full...)

Will she be OK with me being less experienced?

Q.   Hey, I've got a partner at the minute who I am and have decided that I'm going to have sex with. She has the coil, and I will wear a condom so I know it will be safe sex from STI's and pregnancy. But she's had a sexual relationship with her previous ...

A.   8 August 2010: I'm very happy to lose it to her. She is very special, and I really like her. She says she wants to wait until I'm sixteen so it can be special for me as well as her and we aren't rushing into things and so I have time to think it through whether I ... (read in full...)

How can I get my broyfriends brother to think differently of me

Q.   ok. I met this boy who is best friends with my best friend. He lives in algeria while i live in philadelphia. we have been working on this long distance relationship and it seems to be going great. we are in love. butttt his big brother is in ...

A.   8 August 2010: Personally, I think your relationship isn't a proper relationship either if you have never met and sealed the deal. And to be honest, I agree with him in the nicest way possible you have not ever met which can't really mean everything is all ... (read in full...)

I want this gay guy to know how I feel about him..

Q.   Im a girl. i know this guy and hes gay. ive know him for 2 years and in those 2 years ive developed really strong feelings for him. but he hates it when a girls tells him that they like him. i still really want him to know how i feel. how ...

A.   8 August 2010: You should sit him down, and tell him how much you value his friendship and you don't want him to be mad at you or to take anything out of proportion but you have something to tell him, and tell him exactly how you feel and make sure he understands ... (read in full...)

I think my relationship to my boyfriends mother is ruined?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. His mother is really strict (she's indian...I'm white..soo..) but she finally accepted that we were together. She actually would talk to me and liked me. Then today, we were in the guest room ...

A.   8 August 2010: She's going way over the top. Don't cry about it, she'll get over it if she's anything of a mother to be honest with you. Kissing is nothing, for goodness sake, when kissing is a crime she can complain, but it's not. So she will have no choice b... (read in full...)

How do we talk to our friend and tell them to stop doing bad things?

Q.   my friend has a not friend who does really badthings and she doesn't like it. we always tell him he should stop doing these things but he doesn't listen! we always tell her she should talk to him about it but she doesn't knoe how to bring it up or ...

A.   8 August 2010: I agree we need to know what these bad things are before we can give any advice to you. Because this is too open to answer.... (read in full...)

He suggested we be 'just friends' and then acts like we're a couple?

Q.   My best male friend and i have abit of a past, on and off throughout our entire 'friendship' we've battled back and forth between friends and more. Multiple times we have expressed we have feelings for one another, but in the almost 3 years w...

A.   8 August 2010: Listen sweetheart, don't worry yourself so much. He obviously cares about you so much that he never wants to lose you. Tell him that you understand how he feels about the losing each other thing if you don't work out and completely understand how he ... (read in full...)

Did having sex wth my good guy friend...mess up our friendship?

Q.   Okay, I am kind of confused about this whole situation. I went out on Friday night and met up with my friend, we was out drinking and when we get together we always end up kissing. But on Friday we ended up having sex, everything was cool and he ...

A.   8 August 2010: It's possible he regrets having sex with you. Or he may just be trying to get the message across before you get too attached to him just incase. Because evidently your 'good' friends, he wouldn't wanna lose that bond and doesn't wanna lose you ... (read in full...)

What is going on in her head?

Q.   Theres this one girl... We have been talking for about 10 months now. Shes was in a relationship when we first started talking... I didnt care, although it came to bite me in the ass later. 4 months into that "friendship" we had.. we spent alot of ...

A.   8 August 2010: By the sounds of this, this girl does like you a lot. Which is why when it comes up to wanting to be with you, she acts like nothing ever happened because she is trying to stop the feelings for you while she is feeling bad about cheating on her ... (read in full...)

He's in the military and I don't know how to tell him I'm pregnant

Q.   I'm 20years old and at the moment I'm a military girlfriend I just recently found out that I was pregnant and I don't know how I can tell him in a matter of his 8months in training and also can someone give me some parenting tips for a healthy ...

A.   8 August 2010: I think you should start it out with the simple things that you can express freely with him, like how much you love him ect. and how much your missing him. Then tell him how you are, and how things are at home. And then tell him you have some good... (read in full...)

She won't let go of her cruel boyfriend what can I do?

Q.   Ok. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl who is studying in the same school as me for almost 2 and half years. She's in a very rocky relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. She knows the nature of her relationship. Her bf is a very possessive ...

A.   7 August 2010: It might not mean she's ignoring you - She might just not want to converse it right now. Give it a few more days mate.... (read in full...)

He's in the military and I don't know how to tell him I'm pregnant

Q.   I'm 20years old and at the moment I'm a military girlfriend I just recently found out that I was pregnant and I don't know how I can tell him in a matter of his 8months in training and also can someone give me some parenting tips for a healthy ...

A.   7 August 2010: I would personally go to a birth control/sex clinic to be spoken to about the needs of a healthy pregnancy. Or simply as your G/P what ever question you have. As for your boyfriend you should tell him as soon as you can, whenever you can beca... (read in full...)

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