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How can I kiss her with out getting nervous?

Q.   Ok well i'm a girl and i like my best girl friend. Also, she likes me too and for my birthday she kissed me. sadly she's dating this idiot guy (we're both bisexual) but she told me she might break up with him. i really want to go out with her but ...

A.   7 August 2010: first step tell her to if she really wants to be with you then she needs to break up with her boyfreind else thats classed as cheating and cheating just ent right. then second of all tell her how you feel. or just get to know her first as a freind ... (read in full...)

Mood swings and what to do about them?

Q.   So i have these huge mood swings, i been taking birth control pills for about 5 months and well i keep skipping them, and well now im quitting them, im not sexaul or anything yet, but i used them for my mood swings and i get so mad so easily and ...

A.   7 August 2010: first step go doctors explain to him about your moods. it is proberly the fact you have just had a baby not long ago. it may wear off in time but take your tablets you were prescribed there there to help you. and then second of all when you feel ... (read in full...)

His family dislikes me!

Q.   my bf and i beeen togetehr for 6 months and his family dislike the fact that he's with me. they make him do more things for them just so he wont have time to see me. they even use me to blackmail him. they tell him if he dont do this and that then i ...

A.   7 August 2010: not every bodys parents or family like you at first, but gradually they grow on you. and you get use to their ways. may be they think your going to hurt him, and their just trying to protect him. but have a chat with your boyfreind and explain how ... (read in full...)

Trying to get along with the family!

Q.   I really don't think my step-siblings and step-father like my twin brother and I much. The funny thing is they don't have a problem with my mom. My step-father has two daughters who are 14 and 15. Last year they moved in right before my mom an...

A.   7 August 2010: ask him what hes problem is?. the only way your going to get an answer is by asking him him self, then you can sort it out from there. explain to him for the sake of you mom you need to get on else your moms happiness will be ruined by this. or talk ... (read in full...)

How can I help him out???

Q.   I am a married female 42 years old, settled in life with husband and grown up kids. Some time ago i met a male who is 30 years old, I was impressed by his overall personality. it is like i was waiting for that kind of a person in my life.... ...

A.   7 August 2010: right ur married correct? then put your self and your family first before u throw it all down the pan. but on other hands, try suggesting stuff for him tell him to start going out to different pubs/clubs or any where he may meet a lovely lady freind ... (read in full...)

How can My best friend and I get back on track?

Q.   well.. me and my best friend have been friends for about 6 months, we liked each other alot but never said anythin to each other but we became really good friends, i can tell him anything and he can tell me anything, but lately we havent been ...

A.   7 August 2010: ask hes freind what hes problem is, then sort it out from there. or why dont you think of things you can do as a three that all of you like to do. then may be seans other freind will see your not all that bad after all. ... (read in full...)

How do I make things easier to have sex?

Q.   my girlfriend is a virgin, and im not. i have fingerd her and she has tossed me off.. she says shes ready but shes really awkward to like start ''things'' with. what can i do to make this tention go away? or start things easier? thanks....

A.   7 August 2010: try a none sex ralationship for a bit untill she gets comftorble around you. Or talk to her about it instead! ask her if she is really ready to go all the way and explain if shes not then you will understand and you can take things slow if she ... (read in full...)

She won't let go of her cruel boyfriend what can I do?

Q.   Ok. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl who is studying in the same school as me for almost 2 and half years. She's in a very rocky relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. She knows the nature of her relationship. Her bf is a very possessive ...

A.   7 August 2010: it will hurt u when u care so much. but some times the only person who can end the misserble ralationship is her self and in time she will get the courage and leave him when she grows stronger. the only thing for you to do is confront her not on a ... (read in full...)

Is it because she's younger than me she has such a high libido?

Q.   ok I started dating a much younger girl 6 months ago, the sex is unbelieveable. Its wild, fun, kinky and man its daily. Is it her age (she is 22 I am 40), my age, just because our relationship or is the chemistry just that good between us. I cant ...

A.   31 July 2010: well while youve found your perfect girl keep hold of her and dont let her go. and enjoy every single moment of it! they say younger girls are more fun but to be honest any girl any age can be fun u just have to find her. ... (read in full...)

Hooking up with a guy 10 years older for a FWB relationship

Q.   Hey, So I was considering hooking up with one of my friend's brothers. I've known him for about two years and we've been discussing it for some time now and we both want the same thing, no-strings sex. The only thing is, he's ALOT older than m...

A.   31 July 2010: age is nothing but a number! im with a man whos 21yrs older than me im 23 hes 44. That started off as casual sex then wooops we fell in love. Ur only young once enjoy it but if your brothers not cool with it then dont let him know keep it a secret ... (read in full...)

Should I trust him?

Q.   I broke up with my ex(long distance relationship) two years ago. I still loved him but couldn't bare the fact that he had a girl who lives in the same city with him. I can't forget about him and he's begging me to give him another chance and swears ...

A.   16 September 2009: you just answerd that question your self you cant live like that so why try? my motto is once a cheat always a cheat i dont beleive you should give him another chance as its a long distant ralationship even if he did cheat not saying your find out ... (read in full...)

I don't know if my coworker feels the same...

Q.   I am really atttracted to this guy in work but I dont know if he feels the same. When he is on the phone with me he talks away but when he is in the office he teases me more than talking to me. He also doesnt really make eye contact with me...

A.   16 September 2009: i think he may be after just a fling but i dont know this guy so what i do suggest why not ask him? heck wots the worse that could happen, ask him on the phone if you dont wnat to ask to his face! but personally it sounds like hes after a fling... (read in full...)

Been told I'm not a good kisser so how do I do better?

Q.   heyya! i just wanna knw how do i give a good kiss. ive had girlfriends in the past who hav sed im nt a good kisser so i want to knw, how can i give a good kiss?...

A.   16 September 2009: heck its just a kiss you dont wana go round kissing every girl do you? nope so what i suggest is getting into a good ralationship and letting girls exsept your kissing 4 what it is, else dont let them kiss you! your only 16-17 so dont worry about ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?

Q.   why don't talk to me anymore and i think he has dumped me. he never talk's or texts me the last time we talked was the 2nd of september and everything was fine then we spoke about the new house and getting married but now nothing. and i have found ...

A.   16 September 2009: once a lier always a lier same as a cheat once a cheat always a cheat hun move on, if its meant to be hell come bk 2 u and when he does i sure hope he has a good explanation for lieing sounds like another dead beat man to me... (read in full...)

How do I get a chance with this girl?

Q.   i just met this girl in class and we talked a bit on that day as well as the second day we saw each other in class, it only during this class that we see each other and i have found out a few things about her commercial model, rich and an actress so ...

A.   16 September 2009: if she wants to be with you then she will soon let you know, if she doesnt then maybe its just freindship shes after. but im afraid your have to go a bit further than a few words! like asking her if shed like to hang out 1 day after school ask her ... (read in full...)

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