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writes: Hi everyone.. i seen my ex girl friend today after weeks not seeing her. she parks her car at a different car park from me now, but when i seen her today she was with this guy. i was cool about it all, but when she was approaching past me with her man she had her head down and didn't look up when i said hi, only her current b/f said hi. just for learning experience what does this scenario exactly justify?
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reader, stina  +, writes (1 November 2006):
 Hi Anonymous,
People deal with breaking up differently. Perhaps your girlfriend can't handle having you in her life at all anymore for some reason. Since I don't know your situation, I can only guess that she was either really hurt over the break up so she doesn't want to talk to you or maybe she doesn't want to cause any weird feelings with her new boyfriend knowning she's friendly with you. She also might have just felt awkward that she saw an ex while with her new boyfriend. Some people just feel weird about that sort of thing.
You could ask her what her deal is, but personally I would just forget about her. Whatever happened, she has decided she's going to try and erase you from her life instead of try to be polite when you two bump into each other.
And as for a learning experience? I guess it just shows you how people act differently in those sorts of situations, I guess.
Take care.
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