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writes: I just reciently broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half. The relationship wasn't working, she was really jeaous and I just wasn't happy. Now that we have broke up however, shes all I can think about and a part of me wants her back, but the other part of me wants to move on. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): How jealous was she? In what ways? Are you a very flirtatous partner? Jealousy is a part of love, when we love someone, especially when the relationship is noncommitted, insecurity can and does creep in because of fear of losing the one we love to another....it is human really....if she acted out in anger over her jealousy, then this is her problem, anger management, and she can take some classes to help her to learn to control her anger....if that was it, I can understand why you want to move on, if it is just jealousy over other women because you won't commit, then that isn't really fair to her to make that the reason you want to leave....the fact that you think of her all the time tells me you might like to work on your relationship, you need to see where you made mistakes as well and vow to change and treat her with more respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): No! Most girls are not jealous. Some jealousy is ok, but not obsesive kind. Jealousy like that only causes hurt to you, those around you.If you can't trust people around you, you've got a real problem, and YOU should sort it out and not blame it on someone else. Don't take her back, focus yourself on being busy, hanging out with friends, find hobbies you like. Keep busy - you'll get over her. Relationships take time to get over. But please, don't let this jealous person back in your life.And danielliexxx - you need help honey. You make generalisations about woman that ain't true, and you have serious insecurity issues. Sort that out. I sincerely just want you to be healthy, and be the best woman you can when I say this to you- sort your insecurities out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): you cant have it both ways mate,weigh up the pros and cons and then decide
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Well your in a mess really. Most girls are jelouse i'm a jelouse person and nothing can make me trust someone what shes probably finkin is one day you will be (seduced) by someone and you wont be able to resist like most women think like that. If you want her back talk to her and tell her why you ended it because of the jelouse make her belive thats shes the one and you would never cheat on her yeah every man can look but not TOUCH.
If you tell her you will take her back only if she stops her jelousy you mite be on to something.
Good luck.
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