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writes:I usually don't have to ask for help but this is a grinder.I dated this girl last summer, REALLY hit it off, I dumped her when I went to college (she was upset about it). Anyhow she got a BF, lost 'it' to him, convinced she will marry him. During this time I was seeing other women, but she was always in the back of my head, I'm pretty sure a couple of my relationships failed because of it, mind you im not one to be caught up about these things. Turns out, I'm pretty sure I love the girl. But regardless of how I feel I'd be done with it if she didn't feel the same, many more fish in the sea right? Except (after we argue lol) she'll come back and tell me a dream she had about me, or tell me a song that reminded her of me, or we will playfully banter into sexual tension. Sometimes when I'm drunk Ill call her and tell her some of these things (bad i know) but she wont hang up, she talks and seems to enjoy it.MY QUESTION IS, how do I tell if she feels any shred of love towards me? ...or just wants to be friends? If she does have feelings, I might not quit, and if she doesn't, I'll move on no problem. I just don't want to regret what might have been.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Ask her if she does.
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