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writes:This girl and I are really close. We've known each other for around 6 months, and we would really like to start dating.Sounds great, right? Well, the problem is she has a boyfriend at the time.Yesterday, she just started crying. She tells me it's because she would rather be with me, instead of her boyfriend, but that she doesn't want to hurt him by breaking up with him for another guy.Please help, she keeps asking me how she's going to work this out..and I'd much rather gather other's opinions before giving her my advice.
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reader, justice123 +, writes (24 March 2007):
is her and the boy going through rough times if so heres what you do you tell her girl it kills me everday to see you in tears but im gonna say it anyway cause i gotta keep it real know your tired of trying to make it be something its truly not and i aint never been the kind that stirred you wrong.
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reader, downtownboy  +, writes (23 March 2007):
heya i know how you feel i had the exact same thing happin to me wid the girl i loved!!
my advice to you is to stick at it and wait for her she seems to like you alot but dont go telling her you want her to split up now. she is expecting you to be a friend at the moment and to help her so help her by telling he you here for her always. if she spilts up with him it has to be 110% her doing you cant force love just wait for her to make the decisions and honestly it will all fall into place just like mine did!! :D:D i hope that helped you bye bye
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (23 March 2007):
 I woulden't encourage her at the moment as she is currently in another relationship. Her splitting up with her boyfriend has got to be 100% her doing, and not because you told her to do it.
She quite clearly wants to be with you and not this other guy, but she has got to finish with him soon. Otherwise she will just be stringing him along, and thats not fair on the guy.
Good luck
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