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writes: I've been dating a woman 15 years older than me. I'M 20 AND SHE IS 35. we've been seeing each other for bout 8 months. She has told me that im young and am still unsure of what i want, but i know exactly what i want. i might only be 20 but ive done a lot of things in that time, and when i say i want something that means i REALLY want it. i'm the kinda guy who lives by his word. I love her with all my heart and i dont know if she knows. ive tried expressing my love by buying her things and doing things for her. she says that that has stressed her out because i do it all the time and she wants to buy me things but she can not afford to. then last week she told me that at the moment she thought it might be a good idea to end the relationship. when i asked why the only answer i got was your not as take charge as i want and i have problems with commitment... but i know she still cares bout me cuz the way she acts around me. she said that right now we can be just friends. she also told me that im the perfect guy for her... and that if God brings us back together in a relationship then we will know it is meant to be. I have NO IDEA WHAT TO DO????? cuz i love her and i want to be with her. i have never had these feelings before, that's how i know that this is meant to be.. someone help me please! Reply to this Question
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (17 June 2006):
 Hey!
If you love her and she has problems with commitment, why not work out the problem together! Tell her your feelings... u dnt need to buy her gifts to show your love, but tell her all the time!
Tell her that you have never felt that way about a woman before and if she says that you are the right guy for her then why cant you work it out if you are both happy with eachother!?
Let her know how you feel about everything! She may see things differently if u explain to her how you feel with her!!
Good Luck! x
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reader, Smiler +, writes (29 May 2006):
 Hey there
well sweetie if she has broken things of with you because she has issues about things then there is not alot more you can do that you have not already done? there is a true saying out there if you love something, let it free and if its ment to be it will come back to you.... if you love this lady as you say you do you have to do the decent thing here and respect her wishes ok i know its hard but maybe you want this more than she does at the moment, give her the time and space she requested ands see what the future holds ok...
I hope my advice helped you a little sweetie
You Take Care X
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