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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was truly in love with my ex and it took me most of the summer to decide that I was ready to get back into a relationship (I just got out of a rather bad several year relationship). She pressured me all summer to go out with her and was sexually teasing me until we both went back to college.We both decided to become a couple which lasted about a few months until she felt like our relationship was strained due to long distance. I suggested we break and immediately after she would send me messages about how she loved me and wasn't going to date anyone except me. She asked me one night why I never call her much anymore and I told her I was giving her space because I didn't want to smother her. I called her briefly afterward and she said she'd call me back but hasn't.After about a week she removed me from her top friends on facebook. It's now been about 3 weeks and she's still on my mind all the time although I haven't told her. I am thinking of calling her when I go home for Thanksgiving break and asking to see her, then showing up with a dress shirt and slacks (looking good) and planning to talk to her.I have NO idea how she feels about me, or even if she still wants to be friends. Why wouldn't she call me or want to talk to me? Is it too painful for her to be in a long distance relationship or does she honestly care about me and is just waiting for me to be with her again?Her family loved me and I hope she still does as well. I am looking for tips (as I don't think writing her a letter is the best idea), I think just seeing her and solving this in person is my best idea.Thanks everyone,--Heartbroken--
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): My girl does the same she's confused don't waist your time with her if she loves u she will call u just tell her u made a mistake if she dnt call or contact u she's not worth it give it time everything will work outb cool.
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reader, confused in WVa +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Let her go...No body does or doesn't do anything that they don't want to do. Actions speak louder than words. Find your self someone who will show you they care...her actions show she doesn't...move on to someone who is worth your time and affection.
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