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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:In my experience, if a woman is interested in me, she flirts heavily with me, laughs at my jokes and all the other usual things. In this case, there is this girl at work who seems a bit cold to me in general and hardly even responds to my flirting. However, whenever we are standing side by side e.g. looking at something in front of us, or talking to other people, she keeps her arm touching against mine.It is definitely her putting her arm against mine, not me initiating it. Could this be her way of showing interest or can it be that she doesn't realise what her arm is doing, especially as she shows no interest in other ways?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (23 June 2013):
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reader, Abella +, writes (20 June 2013):
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reader, Abella +, writes (20 June 2013):
Some women are more likely to touch people or get physically close and that is their natural disposition. Some of them seem blissfully unaware that their behavior could be interpreted as flirting.
Observe her, if you get the opportunity, and see if she behaves in a similar way with other guys. If not then maybe she does feel extra comfortable with you. Ask her to join you to lunch. Don't rush her. Discover more about her by listening to her tell you about the things that are important to her. What gives her joy. What made her chose her line of work. Good luck
But if she behaves in the way you described to other people then just accept that that's the way she is. And that she's a more demonstrative girl than some others.
No reason though why you can't ask her to join you for lunch and ask her a little more about her.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (19 June 2013):
 It's hard to say, personally I wouldn't touch someone unless I WANTED to, so I don't think you are over-interpreting her moves, but.. if she is married (or has a partner) maybe she feels comfortable enough to do so (touch you) without you thinking she wants more.
I think if she doesn't show interest in any other way, that this lady might be oblivious to how touchy she really is. If she doesn't respond to teasing/flirting she isn't interested in anything more then what's going on, a WORK relationship. So I'd respect that and I would not put more into it.
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