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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my girlfriend were dating for almost three months, and then we took a break. i still love her very much and really wish to go back out with her. she still loves me too and she even told me that she still loves me, the only problem is she's confused, she said sometimes she wants a boyfriend and other times she dosent want a boyfriend. what do i do to make her go back out with me? and it realy bothers me because 9 other ppl ( not counting me ) like my ex. and since we broke up they have all been flirting with her a lot, and i always see them flirting with her. i mean it's just that i love her so much and ever since we broke up i have been feeling like a piece of me has been missing. i really like her a lot and want to make-out with her again, but she's confused on if she wants a boyfriend or not, an im just afraid that if i do make-out with her or kiss her again before she tells me if she wants to go back out with me or not it will ruin my chances with going back out with her. please, please help me
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 I know you love her but you are young you are supposed to be enjoying yoyrself not worrying about relationships, if she wants you she will come back if not then just move on you are in the best place for finding a new girlfriend.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Veasse +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Its not uncommon for someone as young as you both to want to be single and yet want to be part of a relationship, Its called puberty i'm afraid!!
You cant make her come back to you, but you can take steps to help her realise how much you mean to her.
Play it cool, be a friend, try not to get jealous about the other people who like her.. If she loves you (Love is a strong word when you are so young), If she cares about you then she will soon see that you can be together.
Remember relationships dont last forever no matter how much we want them too. Bide your time, play it cool and be there for each other. Concentrate of school and having fun and let her see how happy you can be with or without her.
If you wants to be your girl she will be back.
take care and in the mean time, live a little you are young and shouldnt take life so seriously!
V xx
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reader, nologo  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Maybe she just wants to be popular.You say nine other people like her.She is not looking for a proper commitment at this moment.I guess it is possible for you to bring her back eventually, but maybe she will not treat you exactly like her boyfriend.
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