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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm dating this girl that i have known for about 5 years. She has just recently gotten her divorce. We were getting along good till her divorce became final, now it seems like she is distant from me at times. She used to let me visit her several times a week now it's once during the week and once on the weekend if I'm lucky. We started having sex shortly after we started dating each other and now it rarely happens. She said she wanted to take things slow and I agreed, but how long am I supposed to wait for her to make up her mind. I have strong feelings for her and deep down inside I think she does for me as well, but she is afraid to show it right now. Please help.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 Honey, I'm sorry but women are not afraid to show their feelings unless they are negative or hurtful. This woman is not for you, cause if she was, it'd be clear.
If you want to get back into her life, don't give up easily. Be demanding-at least you will know where you stand rather than being in limbo and wondering if she feels this or that. Speak up for yourself-argue with her!
Then, if things don't work out, you'll never look back and wonder "if only I'd done this..."
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