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writes:I love her more than anything in the world and yet she refuses to give me a chance. I keep asking her to give me a chance but she keeps saying she's not attracted to me. But she's all I can think about and she is driving me crazy, why can't she understand me and how can I get her too? Reply to this Question
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reader, malvern  + ♥, writes (17 May 2008):
 Unfortunately she's not interested. I am afraid you will have to leave her alone. However, you are very young and you have your whole future ahead of you. It may just be that if you still know this girl in a few years time that you may get together then. These things do happen.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (17 May 2008):
 It has nothing to do with her understanding you, if she isn't attracted then that is that. Most likely you won't be able to change her mind. Once a girl sees you in a certain way it is very very hard to change. She isn't attracted to you in that way so there is nothing you can do but move on. A good way to push her away is by keeping on asking her for a chance. You don't want to seem desperate. Back off and talk as friends. If she changes her mind, don't count on it, then you will be there. I'm sorry she doesn't feel the same way. Good luck with everything.
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reader, koler  +, writes (17 May 2008):
Unfortunately, biology has a lot to do with it, and it seems like you are not sending the right signals to her. Simple as that. Move on, you don't want to be with someone who doesn't feel the same way about you as you do them.
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