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writes:Hi,My girlfriend and I are in a long distace relationship. Last year she missed me a lot and found it hard in college. This year she is happier in school and doesn't miss me as much. Recently she forgot my birthday. What does this mean? I know some people take is seriously but I know her, I think she doesn't mean to hurt. How can I tell if she still loves me or not? Instead of calling her everyday should I tell her I won't call until she asks me to? Then maybe I will know her true feelings. Please help... Reply to this Question
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reader, Sam1998b  +, writes (16 December 2013):
 Same just happened to me, today the 16th of december is my birthday. Although we've talked about how to celebrate it all week last week, I havent heard from her all day. She had an exam today but she finished it a while ago and I havent heard from her yet. I feel the eage to call but something tells me I should just wait and see what if she calls
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): It's been about two months since you posted... what ever happened?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): I would finish with her , i also have a long distance relationship im from Ireland and she is from New York we dated for 5 years and she never forgot a birthday till the 5th year of relationship and since then it just went downhill from there ,she even text and called that day but didnt remember even though she would say great things to ME and how much she loved me , she was infact seeing another guy the night before birthday which i later found out ,we broke up and now she is officaly with this guy , its been 3 months now and we have both moved on
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reader, sister of mercy  +, writes (7 February 2008):
The fact that she forgot your birthday is an obvious sign that you are not exactly on her mind. Me and my bf are at separate unis but theres no way in hell id forget his bday and we are closer than ever, and its worrying that you are even questioning your relationship.If she realy cares about you she would have called and she would show she cares, maybe you should call her and tell her how you feel first hopefully you wil resolve things but you have to come to terms with the fact something are just not meant to be.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (7 February 2008):
Women are so emotional as you witnessed earlier when she missed you alot.If i were you i'd be seriously worried.Look i don't about your gf but doing that will only hurt you more coz you may realise she can live without you calling her.What you need to do is take it easy and not pick up arguments now.Wait for when you see her again.Talking to her in person will let you know the answer to your question.I just hope she hasn't lost interest in you my brother.Very few women can stand being in a LD relationship.Wish you luck my but don't try to upset her coz you'll be da one ending up sad.I can see you really love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
When couples go there seperate ways to college at first its hard to feel you will fit in, Then a year later you are part of a new family. Hunny is there no way you and your girlfriend can meet up one weekend as say a late birthday for you, If you cant do this then hunny you may have to sort this out via phoning. So you no how things stand. She probably just simply forgot, Did she phone you to say sorry I no if it were me id be mortifyed that I had forgot, Hunny phone her and talk its the only way you are going to no the truth of how she feels TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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