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writes:One and half years ago, I dumped my 4 years old girlfriend, was feeling bored in relationship. She was begging for next 8 months to come back in her life but I didn't. Between I tried different dates and they didn't work for me. So like 40 days ago, I stepped back into my Ex girlfriend. She welcomed me with open arms but she now gets me working like her servant , I clean her apartment, wash her cloths , making dish and sometimes even have to cook. She says she loves me but I have to pay for what I did to her and her family. Actually, I got her 8 years old sister so adopted to me that she became sick when I left my Girlfriend and my girlfriend would beg me that at least I should visit her sister once in a week to make her better but I didn't do it.Now she said I should stay away from her younger sister . I don't think any girlfriend can treat her boyfriend like she is treating me? And how to totally win my girlfriend heart again.? Please help me!I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 34. Thanks!
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (16 November 2013):
I'm thinking you got fustrated with the dating scene and went back to her hoping it would work.
You shouldn't be put through the "ringer" because you broke up. Get out of this unhealthy relationship. Take time to be on your own. Enjoy being single. You don't have to be in a relationship. I think we all put pressure on ourselves to find "the one" and when we don't, we settle.
Go out there and be free!
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reader, llifton  +, writes (16 November 2013):
 you don't think that any gf can treat her bf like she's treating you? news flash, but you deserve every bit of it. if i speak honestly, you don't deserve her back at all. you should count your blessings for getting to do her laundry and clean her place. be glad to have her back after how shitty you were to her.
she's absolutely justified to not let you near her sister again. she practically begged you to stay a part of her life after you two split up because her sister was so attached to you. you couldn't be bothered. now you have no business having the priviledge being around her. it's one thing to not want to be with your gf, it's another to hurt her sister who is completely innocent in all this.
do yourself a favor. get off your high horse. you messed up. now you're dealing with the consequences. if you don't like it, show yourself to the door. she probably will be better off in the long run. you sound very ungrateful and entitled.
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (16 November 2013):
 hmm im thinking nothings worth all this
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