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36-40,
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writes:My boyfriend has cheated on me in ?the past and I decided to forgive and forget about all of it but since then all he does is accuse me of ?the same things he was caught doing and I can beg and plead till I'm blue in ?the face for him to believe me and he still doesn't believe a word I say iv been caught in a few very small stupid lies but nothing like him what do I say or is there something I can do to get him to believe me when I tell him that I've been faithful and why does he accuse me when I haven't done anything wrong
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reader, Cheeky Madam  +, writes (19 February 2013):
Most people will accuse others of things they do themselves you won't be able to change that as you can't change him.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (19 February 2013):
 "iv been caught in a few very small stupid lies but nothing like him"
I suggest you reassess your relationship with your bf - as it sounds like you both have trust issues, either resolve these issues with the help of a counsellor [if you feel the relationship is worth it] or else move on with your life.
On thing which does concern me is that he accuses you of cheating, is this his way of hiding or justifying bad behaviour on his part. Are you 100% positive he is not cheating on you?
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (19 February 2013):
Walk away - like you should've done in the first place.
It's probably a bit of reverse psychology to make himself feel better for what he's done.
You deserve better.
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