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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend had been together 8months, he broke up with me on friday but we got back together yesterday.Me and my cousin are really close i tell her everything she tells me everything.Me and my bf have had sex a fair few times before and i have told my cousin, i also told her me and my bf broke up and she was really sorry and apologetic. But i thought that something didnt quite add up i was unsure about things. I told my cousin not to talk to my ex because i no how things are, my cousin has been sexually abused at the age of 14 same age as me and my boyfriend 16.My dad passed away 4years ago and normally when people swear on his life they are NOT lying. So my cousin swore on his life they she would not talk to him again! i believed her but then when me and my boyfriend got back together he told me everything but my cousin still hasnt told me she swore on my dad's life again that she wasnt talking to him and she wasnt hiding anything from me which pissed me off but i cant say anything my bf told me not to.My cousin called him and asked him to have sex with her, my bf playing along with it to see what would happen, my cuz said lets meet up tomorrow and have sex.i am so mad at her.She knew how upset i was when he dumped me but yet that night she called and asked him to have sex. i am soo angry with her!!how could she do that to me! why isnt she telling me she asked him.she doesnt no were back together cause then she definatly wouldnt tell me. how can u get it out of her
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reader, I care  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 To me if you 100% sure she did this then I would tell her to go fly a kite you don't need people like that in your life a cousin or not you don't do stuff like that to people you care about. And getting her to come right out and tell you she probably won't even when confronted it would probably be easier to pull your teeth out however I find the trueth always finds a way to come out and you don't have to do anything just sit back and wait.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 It's hard being a teen. Weather a promise is on someone's life or not, it's still a promise and should be treated as such. I'd just be up front and ask her.
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