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36-40,
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writes:Hi all. A few months ago my best friend met this girl and they started goin out. I got to know her and we became pretty good friends. She used to come around my place and was real fun to hang out with. I felt bad for myself for not meeting her first. Time went by and we became very close. She joined my dance troupe and was always partnered with me. She then found out my friend was cheating on her with another girl. They brokeup and she became a mess. I tried consoling her but to no avail. Now she has stopped talking to me i dont why. I tried contacting her but she snubbed me in front of all her friends. Its been 4 months now and i haven't seen her. I think abt her everytime. I cannot speak abt this to my friends. What shall i do???????????????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): She sounds like she wants to forget all about her ex and she associates you with him. It could be that she feels you knew about his bad behaviour and did not tell her.
I would write her a letter telling her how much I value her freindship and how sorry I am about the behaviour of her ex. Then I would let it go. There is nothing else you can do. You like her, she dosen't want any contact with you, unless her behaviour changes, you must respect and abide by her wishes.
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