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male
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend has recently been away to visit someone with a friend (You may note the person she went to see is an ex sexual partner). Our relationship has been a bit rocky recently and she said she needed to get away for a few days, which i agreed to. I didn't speak to her much while she was away, to give her some space, but on returning she said she wanted to cool things off for the moment to figure out what she wants. She assured me that nothing had happened while she'd been away to cause this, she'd been thinking it for a while, and i told her i trusted her. She said that things would be pretty much the same for now, just she wanted more freedom. She said not for anything sexual, just to hang out with friends etc. However, whilst i was getting some photos off her phone i found a nude photo of the guy she went to visit dated from a couple days before she went. She doesn't know i've seen it, what should I do?
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reader, eddie  + ♥, writes (10 April 2009):
 If you were innocently getting some pictures from her phone, tell her what you found. The explanation shoul dbe interesting. How does one get a nude picture of someone on their phone?
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (10 April 2009):
 Confront her with what you have found because if you dont it will just eat away at you and cause you to be off with her, till you get the answer your looking for this will annoy you so just come right out and ask why this photo is on her phone, give her the benefit of the doubt hear her out and then make your decision based on what she tells you.
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