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She has a boyfriend but I think she really likes me...

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Question - (20 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi, there is this girl at work who i really like she has a boyfriend, we worked together and got on very well i ended up telling her that i liked her and she was funny with me for a week and then, asked me out for a drink

i asked her out again and she said my bf would not like this, any way i left it and just kept being normal and have seen her a few times out of work since

she says she is happyer at work

a few weeks ago she asked me round to hers for a drink with her friends and boyfriend

everybody at work can see she likes me and thinks shes not happy at home with her boyfriend she always taking to sitting with me at dinner touching me smiling laughing etc

just lately we have been getting on really well and i mean well, now all of a sudden she is sort of off with me being blunt etc

i asked her what is wrong and she said i feel like crying and said no more and is still off with me but then text me a smiley face first thing in the morning

i really like this girl and think a great deal of her and it has upset me because i feel we are falling out, i would love to have her as my girl friend, i try my best to not make a move because she has boyfriend. whats going on, I'm confused.

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A male reader, Cccc Antarctica +, writes (21 October 2010):

Cccc agony auntDUDE!

Stay FAR away!If she's going to leave him for you she will do exactly the same to you!Also people do this and then they leave their partners and most of the times they either end up back with the person they left or with neither YOU or their Ex`s and EVERYBODY is sitting with a great deal of hurt.

If they havent been going out for 6+ months then its probably nothing serious if they break up but longer then that you just have to stay far away even if they break up she will be on rebound for a long time and wont be ready for a stable relationship anyway !This is a LOSS LOSS for you my friend,that or a world of hurt which is a LOSS in my eyes anyway !

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A female reader, marymomnwife United States +, writes (20 October 2010):

have you ever watched that tv show reba. brock was married to reba but had an affair with barbra jean. l8r barbra jean thought brock was cheating on her. Reba said thats the problem with marrying the man u had an affair with. it ruins the trust

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