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*w1974
writes:Well i went out with this girl for four dates which went awsome. She kept saying how much she fancied me and liked me for two years, she works in my local gym.We arranged to go out again the following weekend and i asked her the next day when i seen her if we was still ok to go out on the weekend in which she promptly dumped me saying the timing is bad, we have nothing in common, i dont like going on holiday etc. But she said she wants to go out still as friends, I must admit i was a bit stunned so i said no worries and left it at that. Now a couple of days later she sees me in the gym and waves and then smiles i wave back. Then you know when you get that feeling when someone is talking about you well the next time i saw her, i just walked in and after a while her friends kept looking at me then getting all giddy around her. Then she comes up the stairs and i can see her looking for me then she comes over chatting and flirting. I just flirted a bit back and left it at that. Two weeks passes and she still keeps looking over and smiling, now one of the other staff has asked my friend if something has gone on between us, know one knew that there had. And now he's said she's told him she's not been asked out in ages, then he's asking me why dont i ask her out.Im well confused, dont no if sh's playing a game or what. sorry its long any advice would be great.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 May 2008):
Who knows what she's up to? It could be a game, it could be that she dumped you and then realised it was a mistake. It could be that she's under pressure to get a man and is telling people she likes you so they won't set her up with people.
Why not cut straight through the crap and tell the truth.
Talk to her and tell her you've been getting messages from her friends to ask her out, but since she doesn't want to be with you then it's a bit weird. Ask her what's going on. She's the only one ho knows.
Good Luck!! xx
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