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writes:I have been with my girlfriend for two years i have been faithful.before we got together i was known as a flirt but she got past that. there has been instances when i random girl texts me i reply because im not rude and sometimes im just bored but i never lied about any of the text. recently one of my friends sent me a message that was meant for some one else talking about sleeping with another girl. my girlfriend saw it. i told her the truth about how i have nothing to do with it and my friend has even tried apologizing to me for messing up the messages and i showed her that. the girl who i also supposedly cheated on my girlfriend with is willing to testify that i did not do anything with her. my girlfriend still does not believe me. what do i do?
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reader, Bupe  +, writes (17 March 2010):
Hi there,
I have also been in this situation. It is very difficult and there is no sure way to get your girlfriend to believe you outright. You just have to show her that you are undeniably dedicated to her. Assure her over and over that you are committed to her and no-one else. It may take a while, but in her own time she will grow in confidence with regards to you and her trust will increase. I would also say don't do anything silly but you sound sensible so that shouldn't be a problem. The key is to put time and effort into your girlfriend; more than you have ever before. And I don't mean gifts etc. but emotionally. And most importantly, get to the bottom of her trust issues, try to understand them and most of all sympathise. I hope this works out for you.
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