A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Heyas,Recently attended an overnight movie thing with a girl I really like at her male friend's place. Originally he only invited her however she told me about this and wanted me to go, so I obliged.I've known this girl for nearly a year and we've been very close for about 6 months however she didn't and still doesn't seem to want to commit to the relationship. We all met through uni.She met this male friend of hers about 2 months ago who used to be married for 2 years until recently becoming separated, interestingly shortly after meeting this girl. He had been making inappropriate compliments to her even before separation.So we attend this overnight movie thing that this guy is holding and watch horror movies throughout the night. Throughout the night, the guy would occasionally try to touch her by way of scaring her etc and the girl didn't seem to shy away or anything, this was happening in front of me. They also sprayed each other's perfume on each other.As we're about to leave she sprays her perfume into the dining area. I later asked her about this and she claims she thinks she smells (I call bullshit, she was marking territory). Then before we leave, she says I look tired and we should all get some rest before I drive her home. I was fine with that up until she decided to sleep in the male friend's bed. The male friend slept elsewhere.Another thing is this girl and I used to talk on MSN a lot and webcam each other etc, but it appears she has blocked me probably about 4 months ago and is now probably communicating in a similar manner with this male friend.Based on all this info, I think she is over me and moving onto this guy. I have some doubts though because she gets pretty pissed off when younger sexier girls hit on me, but that may be nothing.So what do you guys reckon? Is it suss she's sleeping in the guy's bed even though it's by herself? Is she really moving on or trying to make me jealous? What's your take on the situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): Who cares what she wants honey--MOVE ON because, she has shown you time and time again with her actions that she is JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. And the fact that she has expressed to you her feelings, and thoughts about committing, should be enough for you to move on. Believe me, if you keep waiting around, going back and forward, hoping, wishing and waiting, you are going to be one miserable individual. You are going to open the doors up for all type of emotional hurt and pain that you might not recovery from and it will ruin your chances of really feeling deeply or giving your heart and soul to a woman who would have your best interest at heart. Stop wasting time with this woman and move on. This woman may have been on the rebound or just using you until someone else came along that she connected with or liked "better." At any rate, you don't want to be second or third best, you always want to be that person's FIRST CHOICE. Move on honey, just move on and start the healing process of getting over this woman because, she isn't into you. It may hurt to hear (or read) this, but the truth hurts BUT it also sets you free.
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