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*inkbees09
writes:There's this girl that's supposedly my 'friend', we'll call her Sammy. She is like the biggest drama queen I've seen in my life. She thinks everyone is always talking about her and that she's the center of the world. Ok get this, last year this boy, I'll call him Pete, he always bugged her and said she looked really weird. So Sammy will sit with her friend who sits with Pete, even though she supposedly hates him. I think she's doing this as an invitation for him to make fun of her and have her complain to everyone. Then we were doing this lab in science and it involved vinegar. We all know vinegar doesn't smell good, well when my friend Bob [[lame names I know lol]] told her to go and get the vinegar, Sammy was all like 'Eww no that's gross!' then threw the cup where the vinegar was supposed to go in on the sink. She just makes a big deal out of everything. And when me and my friend's are playing around with each other, she'll always come back and say something bad about me. Like my friend said someone's work was ugly, then another friend said they were ugly, then Sammy would come in and say 'not as ugly as [my name].' Wow pretty offensive. I mean its ok the 1st 2 times, but she kept coming back at me. And when my friends would laugh at something, like maybe I did something dumb, Sammy would laugh a little too hard. But if I laugh at her she has something smart to say. She's been this way since last year and its really irritating. Even my friend's have seen this and when my friend and I confronted her about being self-centered, she was like 'no I'm not' she totally is and I'm sick of it for real. Even though I know there's nothing I can do, should I just ignore it or confront her? Because I'm about to confront her and it won't be very nice. She'll do all this mean stuff then act like we're best buddies and I know for a fact that she talks about me behind my back. What's that right thing to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Pinkbees09 +, writes (2 October 2007):
Pinkbees09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I really really want to ignore her but its so hard and she'll start complaining and getting people to ask why I'm ignoring her. And like every science class we get into an argument :[
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): She's no friend, she's an irritation that won't go away even if you scratch it.
This is all immature teenage stuff which you'll all grow out of one day. It's no use trying to score points over each other, all you'll end up doing is winding each other up even more.
You can do without friends like this. Ignore her, she might go away. Concentrate on the lessons rather than the antics of some airhead. You'll come out the other end the wiser for it.
Phil
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