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writes: Ok I need some major advice, half of me wants to get her back more than anything. the other half wants to be mad at her and forget about her.She broke up with me to date around a few weeks ago. It was really hard when I found she had been seeing this guy. A few hard weeks passed and after she went on a date with her it made her miss me and she wanted to meet up. We met for breakfast yesterday and then came back to my house to hang out. everything went really good and we decided to get back together. I could not have been happier..until today.She told me it was a mistake to see me and she was sorry that she did because she realized today that she liked that guy more than she thought. So here I am, crushed after hearing that and she is still telling me that if we're meant to be together then things will work out. Right now I am trying my hardest not to call her. I want to so bad right now to talk about this.We were together for a year and almost two months. I love this girl to death and I can't stand not being with her.Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): Unless she is willing to work things out, then there is not much you can do except try to accept that she isn't coming back. As she isn't, then I suggest you find a way to move on. If she comes back to you again, whether it be soon or sometime in the future, then don't drop everything for her, she needs to realise that by going back and forth while she make up her mind, she is hurting you and possibly the other guy. It may be unlikely she will do this, but either way, don't wait around, focus on moving on and healing. It will take time, but you can and will get over her, if you allow yourself too. Good luck.
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