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30-35,
*artin123
writes:hi my problem is that after going out with this girl for 4 weeks she has said to me that she is not ready to have a serious relationship and that it could be because of family or other reasons. she said that I would be the one if she was ready and that she still wants to be friends. I love her to bits (known her for a long time) and now we finally start to get somwhere, this happens. is there any way to solve the problem as i really want her back I just dont know what to do. help me please.
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reader, martin123 +, writes (17 July 2007):
martin123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the quick replies i think i will take yummymummys advice and be her friend and see how things go ill update with news
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reader, flower girl +, writes (17 July 2007):
 I agree with YummyMummy, she has told you how she feels and you just need to give her time and space.
If you are meant to be together you will be even if it takes time.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (17 July 2007):
 If she isn't ready for a relationship I don't think you should crowd her trying to get her back. She obviously needs some space and time, and you may find she does come back to you on her own.
Be there for her as a friend, if you think you can handle being just thatand see how things go.
xxxxxx
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