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writes:So i have a little problem.There is this guy, and we always seem to come in and out of each others lives really frequently, and there is always something between us when we do.However, the last time we met, he wanted us to become more like boyfriend and girlfriend, and at the time, I wasn't in a place where that is what I wanted. So I basically stopped seeing him because I thought it would be easier that way.However, now he has kind of come back into my life, and I am not sure if he is interested in me anymore, yet I am more interested in him now than I was last time. Have I really messed it up, or is there a way I could change it? I havent actually asked him if he still has something for me or not, but its just a feeling, something that you kind of know. I want to avoid embasrassment by asking him and then getting rejected, but I fear thats the the only way I could resolve things and know where I stand.Is there anything that I can really do?Any help would be greatly appreciated. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help :)
i figured it was the only way!
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reader, loveuxoxo  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 okay well what you need to do is tell him. its that simple. he had the courage to tell you. so you be brave and tell him. and if he keeps coming into your life then maybe you should keep him there. go for it and tell him how you feel. and if he rejects you then move on. you can do it! and remember no matter what happends you are a great girl and any guy would be lucky to have you. and dont forget when you say it say it with confidence! good luck :)
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