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writes:im 35 years old with 2 children. im supporting them alone since their father left me and didnt take any responsabilities., i have no problem taking care of my kids, my question is, i have my boy friend now who promise to love me and marry me., we are now together 2 years, this year im going to be 36, in my whole entire life the only thing i wish is to be married. my boy friend promise me to marry me, but during this time we are together sometimes i mention to him the word married' and he is very, very aware of talking about this.. i love him and i wanna be with hime for the rest of my life., but i dont know how much more time im going to wait for him to marry me., i am waiting for him to marry me and for how long am i going to wait??????? shall i wait or find another man who is willing to give me my wish in my life? thanks to u all for concern and understanding. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): If you really love him and want to be with him for the rest of your life then you'll wait longer than being in a two year relationship to get married. Maybe he thinks that being together for two years isn't long enough to be together to get married and wants to wait to see whether the relationship will survive for a few more years later before jumping into marriage. Being in a 2 year relationship isn't that long to consider marriage and once you are both married the marriage might tear apart. Leave it a while before going up the aisle.
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reader, Sadi +, writes (3 March 2007):
 i would say this.. You say that you "mention" it.. Well, I think its something you really need to sit down and discuss. Tell him that you're not getting any younger.. But between us, it's hard finding a great guy that knows he needs to take care of you and your kids,, So, dont oush him away... Tell him that you have appreciated that he has stood by your side, and father your children.. Tell him that nothing would change, just because you're married.. And then find out what it is that is scaring him... When you sit down and really tell him how this matter makes you feel.. You will know what to do, and go from there..
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