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Sexy but romantic birthday treat?

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Question - (12 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

It's my boyfriends birthday next week and I really want to make it a memorable one for him. The only thing is I don't know what to do. I want it to be something quite sexy but I want it to be something romantic as well.

And the other thing is I don't have alot of confidence. I don't mind doing certain things but it gets to a certain point and I just don't have the confidence to carry on.

So I guess I'm asking for some sexy but romantic ideas for a birthday treat and any tips you have for gaining a bit of confidence while doing it. Any idea will be appreciated =]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

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Okay then thank you.

Hopefully it should work well and be a birthday treat he won't forget.

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A female reader, sammi star United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2009):

sammi star agony auntOk, if you just want to wear nice lingerie and not an outfit that's fine, whatever you feel comfortable in-I'm sure he'll love it just the same. As for the massage, buy some nice oils or lotions whichever you prefer, run him a bath then be waiting for him in your nice lingerie when he's finished. Lay him on the bed (or wherever), sit across him and massage the oils/lotion onto his chest and shoulders. It doesn't have to be a specific technique, I promise you he'll love it just coz it's you doing it. Glad I could help on this one, have fun!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):

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I like those ideas.. but I don't really have many fancy dress items or anything like that. I have special underwear and stuff which I could wear but I don't actually have an outfit.

Would that be okay if I just wore that or not?

And I don't know how to do a massage... any tips on that?

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A female reader, monique-x-x United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2009):

turn off the lights light some candles put on something thats sexy but tht ur comfortable in then tie him up and feed him his favourite foods...make sure there seductive tho feeding him egg wouldnt be very gud haha the stench would put you both off haha

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A female reader, sammi star United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2009):

sammi star agony auntHi, I think I can help you out on this one! Start with the romance, a nice bath followed by a sexy massage with you wearing some lovely lingerie. Keep it going for as long as you can and when he's telling you how gorgeous you are and how much he's enjoying it that should definitly give you some confidence! Then why not treat him by dressing up in a sexy outfit, whatever his favourite is? You don't have to do anything, just let him kiss and cuddle you while you're wearing it and that way you should start to feel more comfortable. Well I hope that helps and you both enjoy! Let me know what you think

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