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writes:Is it so hard to have sex with someone you love when you're not in the mood?Personally I've never found it difficult. I mean you love them, how bad can it be!My partner seems to find it difficult. If he's not in the mood it just doesn't happen, period. Can anyone give me insight into that mindset?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): you have to make her feel unbelievable specail so she gets in the mood
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 Some people really just cannot get into it if they weren't thinking of it before hand.
I will always try for my partner, and usually its not a problem for me to physically get everything working. But there have been a few occasions where if the wrong thing is said, I am done and cannot be tempted back into wanting to have sex.
We're all different, but hopefully he will at least try for you to satisfy your needs. But be understanding if he really doesn't want to. Sex should be enjoyable, not a task.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): I just finished this book called SuperHotSex that touched on that subject. It basically says that if you love them and you are not in the mood but they are try to make the exception and do it anyway. It says that this can actually bring couples closer together. It also says and this is a quote "Its not like you are being asked to eat a plate of raw liver." I agree totally with this. A relationship is about compromise and putting your signifigant others needs before your own.
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