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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and a life without him seems bleak. Before I met him, I was in a very dark place, but he rescued me and made me happier that I ever thought possible.However, for the past 5 months or so, I have been struggling to remain content. I love my boyfriend dearly, but we no longer have sex because he no longer has a regular sex drive. For a while, I accepted this, despite the fact that it cut deep into my already fragile self-esteem. Recently, it has become that he doesn't even kiss me passionatly anymore. He tells me he loves me, and that this it is not my fault - it is a problem that he has encounted before with a previous girlfriend.We broke up for a month, realising that it was not healthy to see each other this way. I saw a few people and it was nice to be single again but the pain without each other was too much, the love remained so ended up getting back together. I am constantly conflicted as what to do. I am a very lonely person and cannot bare to be without my boyfriend but I am young and know I should be enjoying myself sexually. He does not satisfy me in this way anymore. Any advice?
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