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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year now and have done everything sexually you can before sex. We have talked about it a couple times and she said that she wouldnt do anything serious until after a year. Clearly we are past this point and i have brought up the topic of sex but not forcing the topic on her or the fact that i feel we are both ready for it. When we do talk about it her answer is always "Im not ready yet" So i guess my question is when is she going to be ready for it? Or is there anyway that i can reinsure her that this is the right thing to do since we are both 19 and this will be our first time.Thanks so much for you help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): ahhh god that previous comment is so sweet! what he said!! i was 15 when i lost my virginity and i basically did it because i was tired of having to say no all the time lol... a nagging boyfriend is very annoying! if you dont nag she'll probably want it more anyway!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 I would dye if i had to wait that long. lol! But you must really love her to wait that long. well done!A good rule is never ask. just start kissing and keep trying but don't come on sleazy, make every time you kiss very special for her. don't talk about it much just enjoy the moment and let it happen naturally.Just be there for her and let her know you will wait untill she's ready (just say that once but make it known). I know its frustrating but its so worth it in your situation you are in such a beautiful thing with her and when it does finally happen it will be the most amaizing experience and you will remember it forever.Don't ruin it with her dude this is so special. and because you love her it will be even more powerful.
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