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*atie vinslet
writes:Hello, I want to ask... that if a women has a sexual relationship for the first time and she does not bleed, does that means that she WASN'T a virgin to begin with??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Some girls never have a hymen to start with - I've never had one!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 January 2009):
If she doesn't bleed then she has done one of the following:
ridden a bike, ridden a horse, used tampons, done running or gymnastics, taken a fall, masturbated or had sex.
Women were only "gauranteed" to bleed back in the day because they spent their entire 14 years of life sat doing embroidery and then got married off to one of their dad's mates.
If you have sex with a virgin in 2009 then don't expect her hymen to be in tact.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Phil is right, she was obviously a virgin prior to her first sexual relationship. What you need to remember though is... not everyone's hymen bleeds when it is ruptured! It depends on how relaxed the woman feels when she is being penetrated and of course how gentle her partner is.
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Not at all… I don't think that it is common FOR girls to bleed when they lose their virginity… sex might not hurt so much for some girls when they lose it if their hymen has already been broken… could have been broken from herself through masturbation, from another guy during foreplay, even there is the potential that it could break from bike/horse riding… you have nothing to fret about.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 No, it just means her hymen didn't tear, either because it was already ruptured due to physical activity or because it wasn't large to begin with.
Not all women bleed their first time.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Prior to her first sexual relationship she would obviously be a virgin. Blood - or the lack of it - is not an indicator of virginity - or lack of it!
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