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Severe Pain after having sex twice, what is this?

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Question - (21 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Yesterday was the first time my boyfriend and I were able to have sex for a few weeks. Yesterday we had sex once and then a few hours later we had sex again. Except the second time it started to hurt me. So we went really slow. Once it was over and he pulled out I felt really sick. I had this weird pain from my vagina that went all the way up into my stomache. I felt like I might throw up. It was a really dull pain that lasted for awhile. I went to the bathroom after laying there for awhile and tried to pee. I felt like I needed to pee really bad but I could barely go. I finally managed to pee a tiny tiny bit then waited and peed a tiny bit some more.

After this I tried to ignore this dull pain and my boyfriend and I were watching tv. All of a sudden it felt like the pain shifted and just exploded down. From my stomach/vagina outwards? It was an intense severe pain that hurt so bad I started sobbing. My vagina lips felt like they were cramping bad and everything hurt. This lasted for awhile. We thought I was going to have to go to the hospital if it lasted much longer. After this severe intense pain I felt a little ache there. Not as bad as the first dull ache. This morning I feel fine. I'm not sore at all. Any idea what this could be????

My boyfriend googled pain from sex and came up with cysts. I have cysts in my back and the doctor said that I probably have them everywhere. Although I've always heard cysts can explode during your period? I have very bad cramps on my period but I never considered that I could have a cyst there. If anyone has a cyst have you ever experienced this during sex before???

My boyfriend and I haven't ever had sex twice in a day before. We are realitively new to sex. What is this? I don't want it to happen ever again. It was awful.

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A male reader, Anadin United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2010):

Anadin agony auntHiya there,

This sounds like Urinary trackt Infection

you have a feeling of needing to pee, but cant, symptom 1

pain from vajajay to stomach, symptom 2

lastly you upped the amount of sex you had in a day, not necessarily a bad thing, but the juices dry up and trap all sorts of nastyness to get up there. have a wash if you're gonna go a few hours between sessions :)

another noteworthy question is, did you get thirsty after or during sex? that also brings on UTI, you should have 1-2 pints a day roughly, this will help, pee inbetween sessions too!

also if in doubt see the doctor.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010):

i am not of much help, but strangely, i have experienced the same thing you mention.

"I went to the bathroom after laying there for awhile and tried to pee. I felt like I needed to pee really bad but I could barely go. I finally managed to pee a tiny tiny bit then waited and peed a tiny bit some more."

Except, maybe being male is just to different. I sometimes feel this after masturbating

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A female reader, Carrot2000 United States +, writes (21 May 2010):

Carrot2000 agony auntIf you're experiencing pain this severely, you need to seea doctor immediately!

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