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*eanlamont
writes:i have a really attractive wife who im seperated from,shes 27 im 33 we have recently become close again and have had sex twice,she wants me to move back in with her but wants the relationship to be open as she wants to see other men and has even said she knows a guy who would like a 3 some with me and hermy issue is i love her and she loves me and i dont know how it would be to see another man having sex with her,touching her,kissing her etc,iv considered going ahead with this as she is going to sleep with him anyway,what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): Run... run as fast as you can and don't look back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): errr - ask yourself whether this is a marriage you want? Also - consider the fact that if you split from her again then other women in the future who you want to have a decent relationship with and who are less 'open' will be judging your for this. I would think twice about a man who splits with his wife and then goes back to her simply to share her with other men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): I don't believe in an open relation especially the two are once married. It is for sex only not love. Don't get involved in this one. If you want to try an open relation find others, not whith your wife. You will hurt a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): Look,you would be mental to consider her a wife. This does not mean you shouldnt have a go at it. One day you will look back and realise you had a chance many men only dream of. Give it a shot you only live once. She is a swinger,she could lead you into a lot of good times. Dont get back with her just use her for the fun you will get out of it.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 My humble opinion is that you should not agree to the open relationship. She feels you want her so badly that she can extort you. Don't let her. It's not fair. She does not respect you. Don't let her use you.
You should stand your ground. If you don't do it now, she will continue to push and bend you until you break. Then she will leave you.
If a woman loves you, she usually wants you to be only hers. If she can treat you as just one of several, then I'm afraid it is not love she is feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): You could be opening yourself up to a world of hurt if you get back with her and on top of that do this threesome thing.
think about it: you two obviously separated for a reason. If you get back together don't you think those issues that made you get separated, will still be there and cause whatever pain was so great that it made you separate in the first place?
And now on to of that you want to make things more complicated by openly creating a situation that will lead to your jealousy and insecurity?
what exactly do you expect to get out of this arrangement?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): My suggestion to you is this...I wouldnt let her have her way because of all the diseases out there. Also, are you sure that its going to work out with everything that has been happening in your life today? Come on get real here..who in their right mind would go along with this remark of a three some; then what would you do if she dumps you? A loyal person doesnt ask his or her partner to have a three some.
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