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writes:So, I have been talking to this guy for two months. We hung out twice and he seemed REALLY interested in me. Our conversations were about future plans for dates so I really thought he wanted to continue our relationship. I had warning he was a player but his friend told my friend she never usually does this for girls and he must really like me. After seeing each other last week, he stopped texting me for a couple days. He always texed me first and I am not needy at all or anything. He finally got a hold of me and I felt like things were back to normal. I decided to go to his game tonight and I was decided I was going to try harder to make an effort in the relationship. When he saw me, he didn't even come over. The conversation was awkward and I started each topic. He was putting me down for things I was saying in front of his friend (which he never did before). He kept his back to me and before tonight, he was very interested in everything I said. Basically the night was awkward and unusual. I am so shocked and confused and turned off. How can he go from one extreme to the other. My friend agreed I was trying to make the conversation less awkward but he kept ridiculing me. He told me he'll see me some time, not even a hug goodbye. I am so confused, what is he thinking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks it never really worked out with him anyway...found someone new:)
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reader, xsarabethx  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 Its funny how boys do this. And well girls do it too!
Here's my advice and what I'd do and have done:
Don't worry about it! It'll only make you more worried and make things worse. He maybe going through something or is having mixed feelings. He may like you and someone else but cant decide who he likes more. He may just not want a relationship so he's avoiding it. Or he's trying to look cool infront of people.
I went through this and didn't worry. Soon things got out of hand so I talked to the guy in private... Turned out he had mixed feelings. I told him its up to him and I wouldn't push him into anything. We never ended up dating... He turned out gay xD
I hope I helped!:D
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