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Says he loves us both, did not answer quickly, if he was " in love" with me, what do you think?

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Question - (8 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been living together for over a year. Sometimes I feel like there is something missing between us and he cheated on me for over a month with some girl who he says he loves and is still friends with. He said he's not ready to talk about the reason he cheated.

He said he loves me too but when I asked him if he's in love with me, he said that I ask difficult questions, then after a few minutes, he said yes. Why would he hesitate, shouldnt he know right away. He said he's trying to do the right thing and he's with me because I am good to him and we have mutual goals..I am worried about what his real feelings are. Do you think he really loves me?

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A female reader, hijackedheart United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2009):

hun, if he's even hesistating , hed regret the cheating infact he wouldnt of even cheated in the first place. you're to good and to kind to this guy. and if he can tell you he loves that other person then what are you doing with him? i know you love him i was inthe same boat but in allfairnes when i got rid i got rid. if i can do better well there hope for us all isnt there:) ? you deserve so much more, dont let him think he csn walk all over you

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