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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex girlfriend, keeps cutting our relationship off after a few months. She usually makes up some blatant excuse that make no sense. I used to assume she was just using me as a security blanket but now that she has came crawling back wanting to make things right for the 4th time. its making me think she is emotionally immature and simply has no clue what she wants. Her excuses were always weak and never gives an explanation, she has never dated anyone inbetween except one time and that hardly counts since it lasted like a week. The biggest clue to me however is the fact she cuts it off at the 4 month mark each time, right as things get serious she ditchs me. Should i take her back and what can i do to help her decide what she wants?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Sweetie~Kick her the curb. Trust me, You will not regret it, once you distance youself from her dysfunction and manipulation and inevitably see that she is without one doubt the walking real life persona of whom you don't want to spend the remainder of your life with....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 November 2010):
Come on man! Four times this woman has screwed you around. How many more? I know it's hard to move on from someone you care about, but there is a point where you have to stop. You're at that point here and now. She's treating you like a damn doormat! All that happens is she probably meets someone else, dumps you, then comes back when it goes wrong. She has no plans to stay with you. Instead, she uses you, then she dumps you again and moves on.
Quit being the doormat here. Have respect for yourself, keep your dignity this time around and just end it.
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