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writes:Was dating this guy for 10 months, he has past relationship issues that scares him, but we did enjoy each other's company, we have a lot in common, and had planned to do different things this summer together. I saw him 2 weeks ago,then I got a message from him saying we can be friends and that's all. Today he message me and ask if I was o.k. and that he hoped I was. My question is I'm wondering if he will come back to me or should I move on. I know he cares, that's why I don't know what to do any more.
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reader, Manya  +, writes (29 May 2008):
How do you feel about this guy REALLY? I can't tell from your letter. I think you need to see him face-to-face, the e-mail message sounds cold. If he really cares about you, he wouldn't say this by e-mail. I would say, keep him as a friend and look around. If he knows you are looking elsewhere, you might find him on your doorstep!Best of luck,Manya
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): Yeah, been there, done that....I am sorry that he messaged you to say something so personal to you.
He wants to be just friends means that he either doesn't see a future with you, or he is not in the mind set of serious dating and likes you well enough not to waste your time, or at least give you the option of remaining friends, but the romance is officially over.
Will he come back to you? It is always possible, should you move on? Of course you would be best to do so, but the decision is up to you....if you think you can enjoy his friendship without waiting for more, than go ahead....what do you want? A friend, a boyfriend or a marriage partner? How much time are you willing to devote to either goal, and will he be the best person for you?
Just because he cares for you and you for him does not make him the best or right person for you....only you can sort that out.
Take care.
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