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writes: Hi, I was in a relationship but was being insecure by calling her when she was out with girlfriends several times, asking her when she was coming instead of relaxing and waiting for her to come home. This caused her to break up with me but we still continued a sexual relationship until this very day. Our breakup was a year and half ago. I love her very much and want to be committed again but she doesn't. She said that she misses it sometimes but is not sure that I have changed, but I know if I have a second chance I will not do things again. What can I do to get her to give me a second chance for fear of someone else coming along and sweeping her off her feet? What can I do?
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reader, pops +, writes (11 September 2005):
YOu can't keep her from finding another guy, not even if she marries you. Please wake up and join the 21st century. Seriously, If you are even thinking that you can control another woman, then she is probably pretty smart to break up with you. You sound very insecure, but you don't say why? jealousy is simply an expression of self doubt by the person feeling jealous. What do you have to be insecure about? What is it about you that you don't like, or that you feel is inadequate? Answer those questions and work on resolving those " deficiencies, so that you gain self confidence, and your worries will vanish. Really, if some one does not recognize the true diamond they are getting by being with you, that is their loss. Say good bye, and good ridance. If you can't deal with these questions personally, then please see mental health professionals for help. There is nothing more frightening to women than a man who is obsessed with one of them, or more dangerous.
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