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writes:I am average. I have brown hair, brown skin, average figure, average everything. I am a wallflower. I will never invoke intese passion in men- the two long term relationships that I have had were due to the guys loving my PERSONALITY. They would tell me how much they loved hanging with me as I was like the guys. Never did they say I was pretty etc. I'm just the great gal with the personality. When I left the guys, (who didn't have sex with me btw I'm a 25 year old virgin) I never heard from them again. Thats how important I was to them ( one relationship lasted 2 years the other 3). I will never be that woman who men write about in books (my ex wrote about his ex to get over her-poems and the like) I will never be anything special. I'm just the wallflower. I wanted to vent
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): ok this sounds so corny but appearences really aren't everything!
I had troubles with my looks for a couple of years, I got very upset with myself because I thought I was ugly.
I've managed to get over that now though becuase i've really worked to build up confidense in myeslf.It sounds like you could could do with doing the same!
as for the average stuff- I don't believe in average. everyone has at least 1 special thing about them! It might be your eyes or your lips or whatever, but you could do something to enhance them, like wear a bit of mascara or soemthing like that.
By the sounds of it- you have a fantastic personality which is a better trait than anyone could ever wish for anyway-so flaught it girl!
If these guys never spoke to you again then just think of it as their loss! the right guy will come a long some day, even if you do have to wait.
and I actually find wallflowers very pretty so there...
I hope this vaguely helps!
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Alright,PM me,we can fix this.
Damn,you know how to vent :p
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