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Pregnant by another man and my husband wants me to get rid of it!

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Question - (27 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I don't know where else to turn, I feel so sad an alone at the moment.

I was in a relationship with two men, one of which was my husband, and yes they knew about each other as we lived all in the same house.

I found out I was pregnant by the other man, an he ended up being forced out of the house by my husband, even though the relationship was his idea to start with.

I'm now being hounded by my husband to get rid of the baby. I don't want to get rid of my baby as I love the father of the child and my unborn child very much (I'm 16 wks at the moment)

I never thought I would hear him tell me to kill a baby!!

I have children with my husband an not once did he ever ask me to do that to one of his children. He is being that much of a bully he as said about walking out with the children an making sure I don't get custody of them. Punishment for being pregnant with another mans child an not getting rid of it, is the way I see it.

The father of the baby as said that he don't want to break up a marriage an so he as stayed away!!

I just need some advice on what best to do, an no I don't mean get an abortion because that's something I don't belive in.

thanks in advance everyone.....xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

Keep your baby and let go of the men if you have to make a choice....no doubts! bring a new life into the world that will be a joy to you and is innocent. Please keep your baby i wish i had.

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