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writes:Hi. I just wanted to ask a very serious question. Have you ever had a polygamist relationship that was either successful or unsuccessful? Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for those answers that you guys are giving me, and I'm from California eyeswideopen hehe. I was only curious about polygamous relationships because I never been into one and I just wanted to see if any of you who have any advices for me about it. I'm currenly in a monogamous relationship right now and again I was just curious. Thank you :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): HI, me and my girlfriend entered a polygamist relationship after going out for about 3 months and it was horrible for me and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone, it was kinky at first but after a while if you don't fight you'll become the third wheel, the guy we brought into the relationship was a lot more aggressive then me and in the end he became dominant and I was the weaker one, on one occasion they made me clean her private parts when he had ejaculated I won't go into anymore detail but you get the idea and it really hurt me and made it hard for me to trust so if you do be very careful because it can break your heart like it did mine
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Women who are forced into this due to culture/religion frequently fight with each other and feel jealous. I'd assume the only other reason a woman would agree to this is because either she wants multiple partners too, or because she just doesn't want to devote as much time to the relationship. Why is this important to you? Feeling greedy? If you want to have multiple women, then you should allow her multiple men too. If that's the case, I can't see why it wouldn't work, so long as you're both in on the many partners.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Hi ive never had one of these relationships but i would still like to offer my advice if you dont mind, i myself could never see me being in one of these relationships as i just wouldnt feel comfortable, but if it is something that you could accept then there shouldnt be a problem, you and your partner really need to sit down and be honest with each other though and see if both of you think you could seriously do it, i mean would either of you be jelous? and maybe somewere down the line this could drive you apart jelousy is a hard thing and down the line it could lead to one or both of you feeling like you are not good enough for your partner.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Do you live in Utah?
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