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26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay so i'm talking to this guy on MSN, i met him recently but he just moved a few hours away so we talk a lot on msn and through text msgs. any ways before we would talk a lot and stuff, he mostly initiated the conversations, or we would take turns..recently he's been busy and so have i..but now when ever i see him online ..i don't want to be the first one to start the convo!!! when ever i am online and lets say he would change his status from offline and come online but won't say ANYTHING!!, or when ever i go online and his status is on busy..he would change it to online, yet not say anything...until i say hi and then he would talk to me for hourssss??? why is he doing that...i don't want to be the one saying hi all the time..that seems desperate...how long should i ignore him for??** i know he might be feeling the same was as i am, but recently i am the one starting the conversations...i am not going to do it any more!....why does he act like this and how long should i ignore him for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): I think the answer is obvious. This guy is addicted with such situations. 'MSN addiction' as others will call it. You are not the only girl added on his msn! He spends his time chating with a lot of girls and usually loses the sensation of time. On the other hand you just sit on a chair and wait for this guy to talk to you. Time is running too fast for him and too slow for you. Try not to get involved much..
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Tryiing to decode meanings from text messages or msn conversations is next to impossible. I can think of 100 different reasons why this all could be occurring.
If you value his conversation there is no rule saying you are not allowed to initiate. If he never wants to initiate you could ask him about it when you do talk.
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