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writes: I had a boyfriend for a long time. We broke up. He is now with someone else. Sometimes he calls me when he has been drinking and says he misses me and just wants to hear my voice. When I called him back the last time he did this(my first mistake) he told me I was a nice person blah..blah..obviously blowing me off. Once bitten, twice shy I will not respond to his drunken rants again but why does he insist on being disrespectful in calling in the first place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): I say if you have been very firm and clear about him not calling you and harassing you...then time to take firmer action if you indeed want him to leave you be.
Talk to your local phone company about blocking him or tracing his calls so that the police and the phone company can get at him for harassment.
Doesn't sound nice but it's a way to smarten him up.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 when people are drunk it hits them the most what they miss about some body. when he trys calling you again instead of staying on the other line cut off if you can tell he is pissed, where as on a mobile you know whos calling you so if its late at night the nights he goes out then you know to cut off. and answer the phone to him in the morning to him when he is sobber. but the best thing you can do is when hes drunk and you can tell just cut him off. and when his sobber speak to him. that way hell get the meassage to not get in touch with you when his drunk.
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