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writes: Dear Readers, I am 15 yrs old and have a 17 yr old sister. Recently I arranged to meet with an ex-boyfriend of hers as more than friends, the more I thought about meeting him the worse I began to feel as i didnt tell my sister. However she is aware that he likes me but is not aware that i did like her ex-boyfriend. I no longer feel this way about him, but have recently been feeling very guilty about doing this to my sister as we have a very close relationship. Please could you help me to decide whether i should tell my sister and risk ruining our relationship or not tell her knowing she will never find out?? Please help! Thankyou!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): okay. don't do it! don't risk ruining your sister's friendhip. but you should ask her first, ask her if she would mind, and that if she doesn't want you to, you won't do it. that way you're giving her the upper hand and she feels like the older sister rather than a neglected sibling. since you're close, don't ruin it with men. i agree with helpful girl, she could find out from someone else and she'll be more anrgy that YOU didn't tell her. so do the right thing, hun.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 there could be a chance that she could find out of some body else e.g her ex boyfriend you never know what these boys turn out to be untill they turn to be it. i think you should tell her before she finds out of any body else. tell her in a nice manner e.g ive only told you this because your my sister i care so very deepely for you then brake the news. she may be angry at first but in time shell be gratefull you told her first.
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