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Pain upon insertion...who can help?

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Question - (21 March 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2010)
A male India age 41-50, *antosyako writes:

jus replay if u can realy help me

am am 28 yr male.having problem in sex with my girl only in the time of insertion i cant jus do it becoz she crays out of pain.we tried oil,my slightly large penis may be the problem,some body who have gone throu the same situation please help me,i also get some pain at the apex when we try it hard.whom shold i consult

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A male reader, santosyako India +, writes (22 March 2010):

santosyako is verified as being by the original poster of the question

none of us, it time for her to go back,its ok any way thak you for considering......

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A male reader, santosyako India +, writes (22 March 2010):

santosyako is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok thanks everybody.now i will be having not much problems,she is leaving my place by this week,thank u all

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A male reader, santosyako India +, writes (21 March 2010):

santosyako is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ya we are doing a lot foreplays,jus doing that only.and oral sex also we both enjoy that.caring each other,but we dont have that.i hv never been inside her

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (21 March 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntPain is the proof of mistaken ideas and action. Female's vagina is capable of passing a child which is larger in size than seize of any sex organ possess by male. You both are feeling tension, so time being you cannot help each other. The best remedy I am telling you, is do 'foreplay', or mutual oral sex play, in 69 position. These will give you exact experience of sex pleasure, and expectation that how far you can make your sex life like 'divine life'. At least for two week period you forget about intercourse, or penetrative sex, but experience 'orgasm' through oral sex play. Once body grasp pleasurable activity, than mind will automatically gain confidence and courage, you will be success in 'intercourse' almost without pain.

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (21 March 2010):

Auntie E agony auntDear Santosyako, In my opinion your girlfriend may be suffering from vaginisms. The vaginal muscles involuntarily contract when penetration is attempted. She needs to see a gynecologist about this.

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